They can turn what is supposed to be a loving, supporting, and understanding relationship into the “fatal attraction” often described in movies.
A damaging adult partner can damage us, damage our loved ones, and even damage the way we feel about love and romance in the future.
The crazy woman is one of nature’s most devastating forces.
Most guys spend their time rationalising the behaviour of the crazy woman they are dating because they just assume “she’s difficult” or “opinionated” or has an “adorable tendency to be a raging cow.” Crazy women are never, ever crazy to begin with. In my vast experience, I observed both the behaviour of crazy women and listened to the advice of normal women.
Most days, I would scroll through them for a minute or two, then get quickly overwhelmed and click “close tab.” For every 20 or 30 messages I received, I responded to maybe one.
I soon found that online dating did not force me to be nice—actually, it required me to be mean.
“It’ll make you stop being such a judgmental bitch,” was how she put it.