Three days after I had our daughter, he was on two of his ex girlfriends’ Facebook pages! He thinks I overreact but I don’t because it hurts me! Hides his phone whenever someone calls and when I ask who it is, he says “don’t worry about it, you’re too nosy!
I couldn’t trust him around our daughter because his addiction as calls it, was so bad! ”He has been really distant lately, coming home from work and getting directly in the shower.
He says he is too tired to have sex when I want to or he just flat out says “no! Dear Confused & Hurt, First and foremost, any man that lays a hand on a pregnant woman is no respectable man. Getting defensive is a good indication you are not being told the truth.
I can definitely understand your trust issues, especially when you have indicated to him that what he is doing is inappropriate and he is still continuing his in your marriage.
The primary reason to keep an online dating profile active is simple: TO MEET NEW WOMEN. None of these appears condusive to long term happiness--or is it just me? He may not flirt but likes the idea that women are looking at him. He doesn’t understand that he’s in a committed relationship.5.
He’s looking to meet or talk to women for some other reason… First, consider that perhaps he’s not as committed to your relationship as he says or you thought.
Just because you met online, it shouldn't mean that anything goes and that he is entitled to surf for other girls while cooing sweet nothings to you down the phone.I wrote this article about a husband using dating sites before the Ashley Madison outing that recently happened.I was personally thrilled by the ultimatum given to the company, because offering illicit escapades to a married person having marriage trouble is like offering wine to an alcoholic.Women, if you find yourself in this situation, that your boyfriend is not only still on line but he’s been active "within an hour," I think you might have to adddress that you have a problem. Maybe he just likes having his ego stroked when women flirt with him?It may not mean that he’s actually cheating on you, meeting other women and having sex with them, but I do think it means he’s not taking your relationship or feelings as seriously as he probably ought to. This is still somewhat problematic because he isn't exactly in a position to be getting stroked by other women, now is he? All the reasons I could think of for a man to keep a profile active while he’s in a relationship. He likes to flirt with strange women and be flirted with.3.And those who continue to look online for other women, even though they've led you to believe you're in a relationship with them, are slippery ratbags in real life, too.