Over the past decade, I've perused thousands of online dating profiles in my search for the perfect mate. If you review your own online dating service profile after reading this article and make a point of updating it accordingly, you'll be sure to get some quality responses in no time. (Of course, I answered smiles, winks, instant messages and emails from other suitors, but these three dating profiles were the only ones that I started the interaction with.)There are two major reasons why I wouldn't respond to someone contacting me.” So allow them the courtesy of saying it (to themselves) in the privacy of their own bedroom while staring at their laptop. Feel comforted in the fact that you can’t see their hands flittering over the keyboard trying to come up with a supportive/appropriate/charming response. If you haven’t come to terms with it yet and are still in a phase of mourning your old life–you probably aren’t ready to date anyway.And let them have the ability to untangle this information before you sit down to your first date. You’ve got to love yourself–with or without the disease, if you’re going to expect someone new in your life to do the same. –but slamming your fist down on the table every time you decree a new amendment on how you will be treated as a partner is not going to win you any suitors. Remember that relationships are a two way street and you’ve got be willing to put out just as much as you need to take in.Hopefully, by this time they’ll have let it settle in their mind a bit and will be able to ask you some appropriate questions about how your disease affects your life. Lead by example, and don’t walk around with a chip on your shoulder that you leave in plain view. You need someone who is going to be there for you ALL the time. So why not start off this date making a mental list of how you’re going to improve life?
She’ll need you to come through for her over and over again throughout her life.
I know what you are thinking, you aren’t her father so why do you need rules and boundaries?
No you won’t be playing the role of daddy but you can go ahead and give her a nice spank on the ass anyways.
I was in tears as I read through this list, as I’m sure many grown daughters will be.
Mothers – bookmark this list of rules and encourage your daughter’s daddy to read them, memorize them, and put them in to action.
Or they message her things like “PUT ON SOME CLOTHES, YOU HOMELESS HEATHEN” or “CAT STEVENS CAN SUCK IT, YOU HIPPIE.” You may want to try a similar strategy.