This is characterized by: - superficial values - loyalty that lasts only as long as the person views the relationship as "useful" - needing immediate gratification which may result in financial or personal problems - thoughtless and impulsive behavior Extreme self-centeredness: Self-centered people are often viewed as selfish.Usually, this suggests having low self-esteem, self-centred people can be extremely competitive, make unreasonable demands, are constantly preoccupied with themselves, seek out positive feedback or sympathy relentlessly, and don't tend to accept responsibility for anything.Better to see that now than get tangled up in his disaster of a world. You have to have someone who has the same life vision as you, who has goals and dreams and a plan for his future. Don’t listen to the stupid voices in your head telling you that he’ll grow up someday. He can’t understand you and your position on things because he’s not there.An emotionally stunted man has trouble thinking beyond tomorrow. He’s not on the same page as you and that won’t change. You’ll never see eye-to-eye in disagreements, and you don’t want the same stuff out of life. Amy Horton A former actress who has always loved the art of the written word, Amy is excited to be here sharing her stories!How can you feel secure with someone who can’t even talk to you openly about his feelings? He’s fine for right now, but you’ll tire of his drama quickly. Don’t date someone who causes you more anxiety than happiness. You most likely have plenty of stress in your life already without a partner who causes even more. She hopes that they resonate with you or at the very least make you chuckle a bit.
You're gonna drop it with those dainty arms.""Silly, two plus two equals FIVE. There are two main types of female reactions to this, the one from an immature, girlish woman, and the one from a more mature, adult woman: An immature or stupid girl, or a girl who otherwise has a lower amount of self-esteem and self-assurance, will giggle and feel impressed and interpret his pushing her down and being condescending as some form of confidence. If all a particular man chooses to attract are the women who are most easily attracted with superficialities, with personality traits that are empty or easily faked, he will get the type of woman who is easily impressed by these things and who will probably never notice the things about him that he actually values.In the first few weeks and months of dating, as our best selves are presented, we've found ourselves thinking, Finally, a guy who isn't emotionally stunted! But at some point, the curtain is pulled back just like in the "Wizard of Oz" and, yup, his emotional issues are right there. If his mother expected him to be "the man of the family," he may be looking for a woman who is helpless and needs taking care of. What he really needs: To realize that you are NOT his mother.The Frisky: 12 stars posing using hands as bras Don't get us wrong: Women can be emotionally stunted too. And, more importantly, to understand the relationship dynamic with his mother.She may outwardly protest and tell him to shut up, but rest assured her legs will spread faster than I Can't Believe It's Not Butter on bread at an anti-lard calorie-counting party. I don't really see how such a set-up would not inevitably lead to a huge amount of resentment on his part--not just in regards to his chosen women, but possibly in regards to women in general.The macrocosm of how women actually are in a wide sense is irrelevant in the face of the microcosm, the (relatively) tiny community of women a man chooses to surround himself with.Signs of Emotional Immaturity We all have bad days and at times have our own individual temper tantrums.