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He has a few different partners and has had a lot of difficulty saying he is doing so because it goes against everything he wants in the moment.

I want to talk about honesty and dishonesty and how it comes into play in relationships.

Just to be clear – this is not about the trivial niceness lies that don’t come up often – like telling someone you love the pie they made, or saying you have to cancel plans because of work when it’s really because you don’t feel like going out.Letting someone really know you, and really see you, can be terrifying.You are laying your heart in their hands and saying to them “Please be gentle with this.” And if they’re the right one for you, they will reply back (verbally or non-verbally) “I wouldn’t dream of ever being anything else to you.”When I first started dating again after an emotionally traumatic breakup, I was hesitant to let anyone get close to me.If you prefer to listen here’s the podcast version of this post on i Tunes and Soundcloud.This one’s written for a person who contacted me who’s newly single and dating quite a bit.The fear of commitment can ruin even the best of relationships.

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